Relationships

In this article marriage stereotypes are discussed. Marriage is constantly evolving and changing with the modern world. For example, rather than marry for the religious sacrament society stresses the importance of opulence and gifts. I do think that before a couple decides to take the next step and marry they need to be certain they are both comfortable in whee they are as individuals. Females fantasize about their future husband, lavish wedding, and dramatic proposal often times forgetting to focus on what type of person they want to spend the rest of their life with. In my opinion, marriage is about true love and passion for the other not a party and rings. However, while some norms change, tradition is important. I personally think that the man should propose because men are often stereotyped as "stoic" when it comes to relationships. Asking someone to marry you is an extraordinary act and reveals inner feelings. I model my views on healthy relationships based off of my parents experience. My dad proposed once he knew he and my mother were both comfortable in their chosen career paths and shared similar goals. Although he could not provide a ring at the time, my mom said yes because she was in love with who he was not what he had. Today, they work together to accomplish their goals while also encouraging me and my sister to pursue our dreams. They defy stereotypes in the sense that they both work and share household responsibilities.